Healing Has Always Been in Our Bodies
Written by Taylor Lopez Boodooram, SSW
As women of color, our bodies have carried things we were never meant to carry alone. We inherited silence, strength, resilience, and sometimes pain that didn’t begin with us. We were taught to hold it all in with grace, with grit, and without complaint.
But what if healing wasn’t about being strong?
What if healing looked like softening, remembering, and listening to the wisdom that already lives inside you?
At Manaaki Mental Health, we practice somatic therapy that doesn’t ask you to leave your culture at the door. We believe healing happens not in spite of who you are, but because of it. When we blend body-based practices with cultural attunement, we make space for healing that feels familiar, ancestral, and deeply yours.
Somatic therapy is a therapeutic approach that honors the body as a site of memory, emotion, and healing. It helps us reconnect to the places in ourselves that have gone quiet or numb. Through gentle movement, breathwork, body awareness, and stillness, we begin to listen to what our nervous system has been trying to say.
When a memory can’t be verbalized, it still lives in the tension in your jaw. When grief hasn’t been named, it can show up in sleepless nights, clenched fists, or the way you feel your stomach twist in certain spaces.
Culturally grounded somatic therapy goes further. It invites us to consider how identity, culture, family, spirituality, and colonization have shaped how we inhabit our bodies. It’s not about explaining your culture. It’s about using it as a compass for your healing.
This kind of therapy is not clinical disconnection. It is deep return.
It’s honoring your grandmother’s prayers, your mother’s sacrifices, your inner child’s silence, your own body’s wisdom. It’s weaving healing into your lineage instead of separating from it.
For so many of us, the nervous system isn’t just dysregulated because of personal trauma. It’s been shaped by systems, by racism, migration, religious oppression, intergenerational silence. Somatic work gives us permission to lay those things down, not all at once, but moment by moment, breath by breath.
Many of us grew up with models of therapy that didn’t reflect our lived experience. We sat across from professionals who didn’t understand our grief, our silence, or the weight of having to explain ourselves before we could even begin to be helped.
We were told to “speak up” when we were still learning how to feel safe.
We were told to “trust the process” when that process didn’t see our full humanity.
We were told to “heal” without honoring what harmed us in the first place.
At Manaaki, we are creating a different kind of space, one where:
This work is especially powerful for women of color because our pain is often buried under survival. Somatic therapy helps us feel again, not all at once, but slowly, intentionally, with safety and care.
Healing doesn’t have to mean digging up every past wound. Sometimes it means learning how to stay present in your body without fear. Sometimes it means feeling safe enough to cry. Other times it means giving yourself permission to dance, to rest, or to say no without guilt.
We begin where you are, not where someone else thinks you should be.
In a culturally attuned somatic session, you might:
You’re never rushed. You’re never pushed. We build safety first. Then we begin to explore the body not as a place of pain, but as a place of possibility.
This process is relational. You are not doing it alone. Your therapist becomes a gentle witness, someone who reminds you that what your body is holding is valid, and that you don’t need to carry it forever.
Long before therapy rooms existed, our people knew how to heal. We prayed, chanted, gathered, bathed, danced, wept, and reconnected with the land. These weren’t treatments. They were traditions.
Our ancestors didn’t just survive. They cultivated joy. They knew how to honor transitions, how to move grief through the body, how to find spirit in community and rhythm. They knew healing was communal and sacred.
Somatic work is not new. It’s a remembering.
It is our bodies saying: I still know the way home.
At Manaaki, we honor this knowing. We don’t separate your healing from your culture. Instead, we ask:
These questions don’t require perfect answers. They are invitations, like soft doors opening to the parts of you that have been waiting to be included in your healing.
This approach might feel especially resonant if:
You don’t need to be “ready.” You just need to be curious.
Your body will guide the rest.
Your body doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be felt.
Your culture doesn’t need to be silenced. It needs to be held.
Your healing doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. It just needs to feel like yours.
If this kind of healing speaks to you, if your body exhaled while reading this, if your spirit whispered “yes” even quietly…we’re here.
Manaaki Mental Health offers in-person and telehealth sessions in Taylorsville, Utah. Our therapy honors your identity, your ancestry, and your body’s capacity to heal.
You don’t need to carry it alone anymore.
You can come as you are.
You can take your time.
You can be held.
Manaaki Mental Health – Taylorsville, UT | In-Person & Telehealth Appointments Available
6/18/2025
I have had the chance to speak with some of the staff at Manaaki Mental Health. Amazing people very genuine and kind. Real is the word that comes to mind in one description.